Would you cheat on your husband/wife if they neglected you and never wanted to have ?

I'm currently cheating on my husband with a really great guy. My husband never shows me ANY attention and this guy loves being with me. I have kids so I'm not going to leave my husband and ruin their life. This guy is already telling me he loves me which I think is really weird since we only met a few weeks ago....but oh well he's really sweet... I think its ok to cheat if you have a deadbeat husband that doesn't f*ck you. what about you?